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Author: Sally Webb
The reason why I’ve written this article about how to instantly turn men off on the first date is because so many times I’ve seen a woman getting ready and excited about a first date with a so-called ‘potential good boyfriend material’ guy, only to blow it off completely before she even has the chance to say “So, how about a second chance such as another date?”
So The following are ranking quite high up there, basically common things that women do to turn men off instantly:
1. Telling embarrassing stories that make you sound obnoxious is not a very good idea on the first date. We know that story never fails to make everyone in your ‘friends and acquaintances’ group laugh, but you really don’t want to risk it.
2. I don’t know how many times I’ve said this that men are very visual by nature, and you really don’t want to wear fashion that just completely doesn’t suit you or make you look like crazy fashion victim.
3. Do not keep the fake grin glued to your face. Do not laugh excessively either at all of his non-funny jokes. This will surely send out the desperate aura – best way to turn men off by far.
4. Do not try to act cute and completely out of your character. If you are strong-willed career minded women, don’t start putting on the baby voice or refer to yourself as a third person. This will instantly turn men off as they will find this ploy annoying.
5. Do not try and dig into how much he makes for a living. Knowing what he does is quite enough for you to do your own research, seriously. So no need to turn men off, just do your own research 
6. While showing a bit of skin is sexy, showing too much skin and being scantily clad is just going to make you look cheap. That will surely turn men off.
7. Resist the urge to refer to your past relationship as this will turn your date off completely. Imagine you are telling him something like “I have a big family of 8 brothers and sisters” only to hear a comment from your date “Oh! My ex had 9, she had a crazy big family as well…” You get the idea.
8. Have some opinion yourself and don’t be a ‘Yes Woman’. Agreeing to everything that he says is not going to make a guy like you more. In fact, it could be a major turn off for most.
9. Be sober. I don’t care how you think alcohol will ‘relax you up’ a little bit, you have to be sober. “Drunk women talking – or shouting” is the fastest way to turn men off.
10. Realise that this is a date not a marriage interview. So resist the urge to hint in on what the future is going to be like. Pretend that you do not care about whether or not he will be part of your future…at least for now.
By the way, have you ever wondered why some men just don’t call after a great date? Have a read at this article.
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Author: Sally Webb
This question “How to get guys to like you?” comes up so many times now, and after researching for the answer myself, I realise there simply aren’t much information out there to arm the ladies with what they really need. It is no wonder many women just leave it to luck and fate when it comes to getting guys to like them. It is also no wonder that many women settle with second best out of her fear of not being able to settle down with the man of their dreams sometime in the future. Guess what? It doesn’t have to happen to you.
I realise answering the actual question on how to get guys to like you may not be easy, and believe it or not this whole question can be answered in one thick and very attractive book. However, I am going to try my best to simplify it so that this article alone will arm you with instant knowledge on how to get guys to like you and boost your chance to get men by heaps.
1. Confidence and mind reality.
No matter how many times I have said this – and in any form – confidence and mind reality are the most important substance you need to have in order to get guys to like you. In fact, even if you don’t even know this guy as yet, you will be able to use your confidence alone to turn his head and notice you. Once you have that believe in yourself, you will be able to start the journey of getting the man of your dreams.
2. Know exactly what men find attractive – I’m talking about the superficial outer look here.
One of the first things that we usually notice when we meet someone is their physical appearance. When it comes to guys, physical appearance is even more important since we now agree that they are very visual creatures. Pay attention on your physical appearance. Go to the gym, take good care of your nails and hair, and most importantly pay more attention on how you dress. Wear things that flatter your assets (note: assets guys normally are attracted to are of course, chest, hips, bum, face or legs). So pay attention to those assets you’ve got.
3. Alluring body scent will be one top way on how to get guys to like you.
Many women overlook this but do you know that guys respond to smell that lingers in their mind long after you are gone? Find perfume that works well with you (Not all perfume suit everyone), and stick with that. Find yourself a signature smell so that guys will associate that with you. You would be surprised on the effect. Oh, try not to change your laundry detergent too often as well.
4. Love your life as much as possible.
This last one is very simple yet very hard to do. However, it is the most effective technique on how to get guys to like you when compared to the three pointers above. Have you ever heard a guy friend of yours tell you “there is something about Mary”, and he cannot quite point out what is it that is so attractive in her? Well, a woman that loves her life is very attractive. A woman that loves her life does not drop her routine for a new guy in her life. She will not ditch a good friendship for a ‘potential’ relationship. She respects the guy’s time as to not calling him repeatedly during the football match. She is secure, and simply loves her life.
Find out even more advice on how to get guys to like you here.
