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Do you want to know one simple secret many women have used to instantly look sexier? Of course you do. After all, we all know that men are visual creatures to an extent and unless you’ve got the so-called WOW factor, it’s kind of hard to make them want to know your personality.

Well, I have looked around everywhere but funny enough, many women tend to overlook this simple secret despite the many hints men drop everywhere. Tell me, have you ever heard (maybe many times you’ve heard) a man say to his friend or to you: “I really love nice eyes” or somewhere along that line? Couple that with many eye make-up products out there, you know the secret. Men love sexy eyes.

Now the question is, how can you make your eyes look sexier? What if you’ve got that dull eyes and what if you are not so gifted? Here is the good news, any woman can make her eyes look instantly sexy by doing the following:

1. Pay attention to the eyelash

Longer, thicker eyelash will make you instantly sexier. I am sure you’ve heard this before from some mascara advertising, but you might not have been too convinced. Of course, this may mean getting up in the morning earlier before you go to work to put on sexy mascara as well as taking longer time to wash and remove it in the end of the day, but it’s worth it. Though, some women go with the option semi-permanent eyelash extension as well as the DIY glued-on fake eyelashes.

2. Plug your eyebrows

No matter how lazy you are and how trimmed your real natural eyebrows are, you really need to plug and shape them. This will surely make your eyes look sexier in a heartbeat. I normally leave this to the professional, but if you’re confident you can do it yourself, then by all means do it!

3. Get rid of the eye bags

I use to photo-shop models for magazine covers, and the first thing I did was to get rid of the eye bags. That would instantly (and I mean, instantly) make you look sexier. Though, I understand getting rid of the eye bags is not so easy. So do the following: for short term, apply nice foundation a shade lighter than your face color. For long term, go for the facials, eye creams, or the plain cucumber.

4. Top secret: Learn the bedroom eyes technique

If you wear contact lenses, try to go for the lenses that will make your eyes look bigger and sparkly. If you don’t, learn this technique. Basically, focus your eyes on the part on the other person’s face that look most attractive to you, this will make your pupil go larger and hence look sexier. Also, remember when I mentioned about getting longer eyelash earlier? Well, the longer your eyelash are, the harder it is for the eyes to receive light. Therefore, your pupil will naturally get bigger in order to adapt to it. So there you go, bedroom eyes secret can be easily done.

Trust me that once you learn this eyes technique you will look instantly sexier. Your man will not even know what has hit him and will say something along the lines of “Something’s different in you, so sexy, but I don’t know what.” You’ll probably hear the word “hot” associated with you more often and that my friend, is a super confidence booster.

First of all, if you really want to know how to be more attractive to men, you’ve just got to stop idolizing those air-brushed supermodel pictures appearing in magazine covers, because they are air-brushed or at least, wearing best cosmetic by the best professional. You can’t compete with that and most importantly, men are not that superficial in the first place so don’t worry ladies.

Plus, despite everybody wanting to be more attractive, competing with ridiculous beauty standards is tiring and unrealistic. Unless your name is Barbie (which means you only look for men by the name ‘Ken’), you will be real. Don’t you think it is good news that women don’t have to waste so much money on plastic surgery, hair extensions and cosmetic tattoos just to be more attractive to men. After all, you only need to attract men you want to date, and beauty is in the eye of beholder. So if you want to know how to be more attractive to men, simply do the following steps:

1. Never fake a laugh, or a fake grin

There is nothing less attractive than faking ear-to-ear grin or laugh. Next time you go to a coffee shop with your friends, look around you and you will bound to see a couple where one of them is faking the laugh. You will then know what I mean. But really, a guy is not dumb, he will know if you are faking your laugh or grinning unnecessarily, and it will do the opposite effect rather than to make you look more attractive. But despite saying so, please be generous with your smile, just make sure they’re real.

2. Be Confident of Who You Are

No one can judge how attractive you are but yourself. That is the truth. Basically, if you know you are attractive (and you really know), others will not disagree with you. Not only you will be more attractive to men, you will also be more attractive to people in general – talk about getting more friends, more invites to social events and hence…more MEN.

3. Dress to flatter your assets, not fashionable

Men are visual creatures, and men do not give a damn about the ‘latest fashion trends’ in Cosmopolitan. Many women dress to impress other women, not men. So if you’d like to impress your best sex-in-the-city little lady gang, put on the newest fashion trend, not to forget the designer expensive bag and the ‘new winter look’. But keep in mind that if you want to know how to be more attractive to MEN, not to your girlfriends, then learn how to dress to flatter your assets – whether or not it’s the latest trends.

Plus, it’s probably better to own something that last longer than just three months, it saves money and it’s a sure way of saying what you wear is definitely classy. So if you think you are gifted somewhere e.g. your backside, or your top-front, flaunt them, just show what you got (without being trashy of course). Find clothing that works for you EVERY time and stick to them. Men doesn’t care less if you are wearing a pair of jeans from four seasons ago, so go and grab a great flattering-your-bum jeans from the ‘last season’ in the next sass & bide sale and go with them.

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