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Even if you’ve only gone on ONE date with a guy, you will be able to tell easily if a guy likes you. Of course, there are major signs you can count on such as telling his friends about your existence behind your back, but you won’t know about that one unless you’ve gone out with him a couple more times. So in this article, I will just outline one biggest sign that a guy likes you, the one that separates an interested guy against a guy who is ‘just not that into you’.

Women like to analyse things. If a guy does not give you a call after a great first date and it’s been two days, does he like you? If a guy prioritise his family and work over you (you’ve only just met) does he like you? I am sure you have many more scenarios involving many mixed signals and sleepless nights wondering about whether or not a guy you have just started seeing likes you. Come on, is there just a magic pill that exist to tell you in the most straight answer whether or not a guy likes you?

Well, no there isn’t any magic pill to tell you that, you wish don’t you? But there is one biggest sign to tell you in the most super straight answer whether or not he likes you. Now this is going to be the same whether you’ve only met him once, two or three dates, or you are dating seriously. As long as he still shows this sign, you are both on good page. Listen to this carefully. A guy likes you if he simply makes time for you.

Yes, you’ve heard it right, a guy likes you if he makes time for you. In fact, he WANTS to see you himself, so motivated by his own needs i.e. seeing you, he will definitely make time for you no matter if he is busy, or is lost in the sea for the next couple of weeks. He will want to see you as much as possible even though he is the busiest man on earth. (Even if in the beginning he only manages to see you once or twice a week, so long as he makes time for you he is interested.)

So that is the good news, that it is actually very simple. You can decipher what a guy really thinks of you by watching his action. He makes time means he likes you. But the bad news is though, Women tend to overlook this because they have this big thing in her mind called the ‘wishful thinking’. She doesn’t want to accept the fact that a certain guy is not into her when he tells her “I like you a lot, but I have to go feed my dog or bathe my cat every day so I won’t see you for a year” (ok, that’s extreme but you get the idea).

Look ladies, no matter how hard it is to accept, men are actually simple and dating is not supposed to be complicated. WE make it hard. But if you can’t help it and want to know all the signs (including all the subtle ones), find out more here on how to know if a guy likes you.

Here are the top ten reasons why you still are not dating the right men, finding jerks or men that you are not even half attracted to instead .

1. You are not open to meet new people and friends, you simply disregard online dating or speed dating because you think they are only for losers.

2. You are not interested in trying new places such as new restaurants, bars and clubs.

3. You do not make any effort to look your best. In fact, you look kinda daggy most of the time. Who else is into the worn-out sweatpants you love so much? Uh exactly, not the kind of men you want to be dating.

4. You are very negative about things. You are not confident with yourself and as a result you don’t radiate the sweet confidence air men are secretly craving. You have secret fear that you can never be dating the right men.

5. You play TOO hard to get, and you don’t even show any man you like that you are in fact…interested. Dating is all about you as you don’t want to give the smallest piece of your emotion to anyone else due to fear of rejection or fear of getting hurt.

6. You have the habit to laugh at the person you are with rather than with him. You have poor taste of jokes and you cannot take any joke yourself.

7. You are so not open and it shows in all your body languages and your tone of voice i.e. you cross your arms while talking, and you talk in the most boring tone of voice ever. This is all because you are not interested in the person, because your idea of dating the right men is about dating someone tall, dark, handsome, with the greatest job, and no less.

8. You radiate big desperation air around you. Basically, you have the idea that every date should really turn into marriage, so you demand a long explanation if the man you are dating has not called you within 24 hours of meeting. You can’t be dating the right men like that because men get turned off by desperation.

9. You simply don’t smile enough. Believe it or not, most people love a great smile. So even if you think your smile is not all that great, just do it! You’ll be surprised how many men will fall head over heels with that smile of yours

10. Lastly, is the greatest mistake of all. You don’t want to change in order to create change. You are accustomed to your old way of dating men and you simply blame men when dating the right men seems to be a challenge for you. Maybe that’s not the only reason why those men stop calling you.

Find out exactly why men don’t call you or simply disappear after a great (or a few great) dates here. Maybe you can change the way you think, and dating the right men will start becoming natural to you.

Good luck.