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Author: Sally Webb
I’d like to tell you a simple answer to the question “Is He Really That Into Me?”. First of all, the friends that I hang around with are mostly guys. This is exactly why I am so lucky that many times I go out with them to bars and clubs, listening to how they talk, easily solving the puzzle of what’s in a guys mind and is he into me or not.
To be honest, many women actually know and able to answer that question herself. Have you ever gone out on several dates with a guy who you just ‘know’ is into you? Of course you have. But I have to also mention that when things start to get good, most women will suddenly get so insecure that the feeling won’t last. The ‘drama queen’ personality starts to take place wondering why things are going so well and waiting when that crazy bold-and-beautiful drama finally comes about in your life. So just to confirm your guess that he is actually into you, let me give you some signs so that you don’t have to keep on asking yourself every night “Is he really into me”?
Here it is:
1. He makes time for you and he wants to see you. When a guy is really into you he can get a little insecure just like you. He focuses on whether or not YOU are into him.
2. You catch him staring at you. Guys are not mind-readers and they can’t multi task. He can’t smile at you while making small conversation while thinking in his mind ‘Is she into me’? like you do.
3. He wants to touch you. He finds reason to touch you i.e. he may try to touch your back while crossing the road, or your arms while he is making a joke etc.
4. If you are lucky enough to get to see his friends, they are not surprised when they meet you. He’s been talking to his friends about you.
5. He makes effort to contact you…often. When a guy is into me, he will call me daily or at least text me daily.
6. He’ll chase you. This is a big sign. When a guy is actually into you he will chase you. You won’t have to wonder too much whether or not he likes you. His action gives you more than a clue so watch that space.
That’s it, those were the biggest and simplest answers to the question “Is he really that into me?”. But if a guy is giving you mixed signals, or you still aren’t sure why a guy hasn’t called you yet after a date well then here is a way to understand men completely i.e. “Is He Into Me?”
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Author: Sally Webb
You’ve seen this guy a couple of times, probably made some drunken text or phone calls, you wonder if he is for real or he is only a fling. Well, there are of course signs to tell you whether or not he is for real, and here they are:
1. The time you spend with him is just fun. You have non-stop party time, fun time…every time. This unfortunately is not reality (or at the very least, the relationship has not exactly become the reality as yet.)
2. You both magically lose your life outside the relationship. It suddenly feels like the world only belongs to you and him and no body else. Basically, you forget you had a life before him, cancel all your plans with your friends and in fact, you don’t even remember the last time you spent apart from him.
3. This one is the opposite of number 2, where you don’t get to see him much at all. You ‘catch up’ once in a while casually and no one seems to (or pretends not to) expect another date beyond this one.
4. When you are actually together you tend to get a little too physical without actually talking to each other.
5. If you are lucky enough to talk, the conversation you have is very unimportant and shallow. I am talking about those flirty conversation foreplay rather than the deep conversation about values, goals and dreams.
6. Come to think of it, you’ve never seen his driver licence, nor he ever seen yours. In other words, you don’t even know each other’s last name – assuming his first name he told you is real.
7. You know he is dating other women and he doesn’t even make any excuse for it.
8. He is actually on holidays right now – or on working holiday visa without any real plan to stay. So you both still don’t know what happens when he goes on his pre-determined flight to his home country in two weeks.
9. Whenever he talks about his plan in the future (if he does talk), it doesn’t include you in it – not even a hypothetical example.
10. After a romantic weekend away with him you STILL are not sure when you’ll see him again. The sentence “see you soon” has got no meaning to you because he’s been using that same phrase without any real follow through.
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